I finally realized after talking with a friend that I am an amazing woman, with amazing goals. I know I can reach these goals.
Getting back into them ,will hopefully keep my mind off the other guy.
There are so many projects if I just keep my mind on them
I will not promise myself again that I will not make the first move, which is usually what I do when hyper-sexual. I have no time for you to wait to move. I take things into my own hands.
A couple of times I felt crappy months later when I realized the impulsive things I had done. You cannot force something that is not there.
Which do you think I should say and expect from him
There is not really anything. No magic , nothing that pulls me toward him.
Some could say, let him know we can only be friends. I really don’t see this going anywhere else. I hate to tell him I am not really attracted to him. He kept saying he was coming to help me move some furniture. He never showed up, nor did he give me the curt icy of a phone call. That is really a big pet peeve of mine, not changing plans but no notice.
Just let him know we can only be friends.
or just walk away ad say nothing.
What do yo think I should do?
Should I keep seeing him as a fiend, maybe in time my feelings or lack of will begin to grown of him.